things you probably need to here...
Updated: May 8, 2023
That person, whether romantic or platonic, will not and I repeat will not solve all of the problems or minor inconveniences.
It's okay to be alone and feel lonely but that does not mean you drop your standards for people you've outgrown.
You're allowed to cry and feel sad even if nothing is specifically going on.
If you want to have that dance party alone at 3pm or 3am you can.
It is okay to do things by yourself.
Don't have to mental capacity to deal with that thing? its okay to leave it a day or two until you're ready!
Still missing the friendship/relationship a year or longer is normal, but remember why it no longer worked out.
If you want to talk to someone just message them - you can't wait for a what if from someone else. if they don't want to talk it is okay and not a personal attack on who you are and what you offer!!
IDK if anyone needed to hear any of the but hopefully at least one person benefits!
I know writing a few of these I needed a reminder that its okay to miss people but know its okay to not need them/want them around.
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